Really?

Okay so I'm having this conversation with a young lady, just trying to get to know each other. Out of the blue she makes two comments that kind of took me by surprise and I didn't really know how to take it, so I just did like any cool, calm and collected dude would--I just said the normal come back "Oh really...?"

These are the two comments:

"Well in college I knew a lot of guys, if you know what I mean..."

"I love giving head, you know I get off from that."

Now, I am a pretty open minded dude, but this made me look at the phone like, "why am I talking to you?" Ladies, certain statements should be kept to yourself you don't have to share everything. It got me to thinking, "do I really want to know if a girl loves giving head?"

So my assignment for you, the readers, is to post something that someone has said to you that has made you look at the phone and say "are you serious right now...."


Bobby Drake

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Friendship...poem...experiment

So I'm working on a new poem (not really they're usually off the top of my head) and it's about friendship and a few other issues tossed in.

Got me thinking about a little experiment. I want all the readers to write (make a list) down all the people you consider "true" friends. You don't have to use their real names, in fact don't use their real names come up with clever nicknames that only that person and/or your group of friends will know.

You may be surprised at your list. You may be even more surprised at who "doesn't" make your list. And please don't be scared to hurt someone's feelings that thought you two were cool...ha. The truth hurts bitches!!

GO ZamFam

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Poem...Number ???

Listen the demand for me to post another poem is high. I was going to post another poem but I need some motivation...

Well I found that motivation. Friendship seems to be surrounding me. So my next poem will be about friendship...

Hope you enjoy!

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Lost love...

So, my question is have you ever fell in love at first sight or ever felt that true love. If you've ever felt this talk to your boy...

ZamFam

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Friendship...

So I'm chillin with a couple of my favorite people in the world and a question came up about relationships...

When do you make judgments on the level of friendship you share with another person. Today I was going thru a lot and I was looking for my friends to step up. The people that are close to me stepped and and shared their well wishes with me.

So when do you cross the line? If you're a friend or best friend are you that friend all the time no matter what?

Talk to me ZamFam

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How do you say I'm sorry?

When it comes to relationships whether it be in a marriage, friendship or any other type of relationship problems and fights happen. How and when do you say you're sorry?

I got some really good advice from a much older, more mature good friend I work with, that I believe his parents past along to him. It's very simple he said, "Cornell to make any relationship work, you have to pick your battles. Know when to fight and know when to say 'I'm sorry' and mean it."

Someone I love and very dear to me was upset about something this weekend and it wasn't a battle we needed to fight. I said I'm sorry in the best way I knew how and I believe I was forgiven. She means the absolute world to me so I'm glad we're back on the right path.

So, how do you say I'm sorry? Talk to me ZamFam!

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Kick Rocks

This goes for both men and women.

Let me tell you about an experience I had the other night. Don't you hate when someone comes over to your house and they don't know when its time to leave? I feel like once your purpose for being there is over you need to pack up your shit and break out. There is no need for you to continue to sit on my couch or lay in my bed trying to have random conversation that I don't really want to have about, shit I don't really care about so that you can stay longer. If you come over to cook dinner, cook it, eat it, clean up, pack up, and break out. If its a movie, watch it then roll out. If its sex, do the business then bounce.

If you hear these words, "hey what you bout to do?" I have to get up early tomorrow, or "its getting late" don't ignore these signs, take the hint and break out. If the person wants you to stay they will invite you to or when you are packing up they stop you and ask you to stay longer. Don't assume, play it safe and kick rocks.

Bobby Drake

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HAHA...like you never thought about doing it. All-Met Star crying? (Click for video)

Just for fun people, I'm silly. I understand he may have been going thru something. But his down fall was not asking KG permission to upload this, so he's fair game. Enjoy!

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Romance in a relationship (Click for video)

This question is directed at the ladies first. What does romance mean to you? What is the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for you? If no one has done anything romantic for you, help the fellas out there and tell us what women are looking for.

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Just a quick update (Click for video)

Just a quick update on what's been going on the last week or two. Also wanted to say thank you for the support. Thanks ZamFam!

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SAY IT WITH YOUR CHEST!!!!!!!!!

So over the weekend I had the opportunity to see Kevin Hart live in Washington, D.C.. He made a joke about his uncle who's favorite saying is, "say it with your chest!" That got me thinking about relationships and the horrible things we say to each other in the heat of the moment.

What is the worst thing you have said to your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband? Secondly, what is the worst thing someone in a relationship has said to you?

Talk to me ZamFam!

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