When it comes to relationships whether it be in a marriage, friendship or any other type of relationship problems and fights happen. How and when do you say you're sorry?
I got some really good advice from a much older, more mature good friend I work with, that I believe his parents past along to him. It's very simple he said, "Cornell to make any relationship work, you have to pick your battles. Know when to fight and know when to say 'I'm sorry' and mean it."
Someone I love and very dear to me was upset about something this weekend and it wasn't a battle we needed to fight. I said I'm sorry in the best way I knew how and I believe I was forgiven. She means the absolute world to me so I'm glad we're back on the right path.
So, how do you say I'm sorry? Talk to me ZamFam!
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3 comments:
you have a very wise friend...that was some great advice.
not sure how i say sorry other than saying it and doing whatever it takes to make things right....but i do know that coming home to flowers and a heartfelt note (especially when it comes from someone who is not a "flower" guy) is an amazing feeling and a sure way to be forgiven.
I've had sorry said to me too many times by someone I loved with all my heart only for it to mean nothing. I feel that sorry can only be said so many times by the same person over the same issues and then it means jack shit.
You can usually tell when someone is truely sorry for what they did. If you're going to say sorry do it with love and MEAN it! Don't do it just so you can stick around and get in her/his bed, that's selfish and rude.
WOW....Anonymous!! Say it with your chest!
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