What the HELL is wrong with this guy? (Click for video)

Are you serious? haha...Kevin Hart is right--it's not even a real gospel song! What is up with this guy?



...And who in the hell is singing in the back ground? Get your damn off that man's naked shoulder...lmao!!

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Talk dirty to me....

I was talking to a girl friend of mine and she said her lame ass boyfirend won't talk dirty to her in bed.

So, I have two separate questions:

A) Do women really like to be talked to like this?


B) Fellas, do you have a problem talking nasty? Apparently there's one guy out there that can't handle it.

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Women are just like men...Break it down Kevin Hart (Click for video)

The funniest guy doin' it right now!

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Who's paying for that?

So, I work with this college kid, let's call him Mike a.k.a M. Phish for his protection of course..ha. And he has my brain all mixed up on what's right or wrong when dating and what the man is suppose to do and the roll of a woman in a relationship.

More specifically we were talking about who pays for dinner or drinks when the check comes (haha). He doesn't believe in paying for his ladies share b/c to him that's him putting a down payment on the panties and he doesn't think that's right. He'd rather go 50/50 and have his lady offer the panties (haha) b/c she likes him, not b/c he brought her dinner...?

My outlook is this, I like when a woman pays for dinner. Let's me know where we stand off the jump. Not that she's going to pay for dinner every time, or she's trying to prove she has her own. To me it means I'm on your team, let me be your partner and we'll do it together. Has absolutely nothing to do with the panties...(haha).

My guy Mike said 50/50 is the only way to go. I say whoever reaches first (Guys step up and reach more). I know when I'm out with my homies and the check comes we play the "Not it" game. Who ever is left standing handles that...haha.

So what are the rules of dating between men and women when the check comes?

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Joanna Shari...My new crush (Click for video)

Fellas...wow! Ladies please don't hate, I'm sure some of you will enjoy this!!

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Just Because...Amazing! (Click For Video)

Ade and Melissa from "So you think you can dance."

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You going to eat that? (Click to see pictures)

I was watching a movie this morning called, "The Brothers." Starring D.L. Hughley (Wack! Not funny at all), Morris Chestnut (People say we look alike...he could only wish....lol), Shemar Moore (definitely gay), and one other lame actor (Bill Bellamy...he's alright). The movie was about relationships and falling in love and the process men and women go through to get to that point. In one of the scenes the women are sitting around and they come up with the idea that if a man give you the last chicken wing--then you know you're in love!! HAHA

I believe this to be the stupidest thing I've ever heard, but it did make me think. So the question is for both men and women.

What are you willing to give up for love and what is the one thing you'll never give up? Let me add that Morris' love interest was the beautiful Gabrielle Union!

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Facebook vs. Myspace

This question doesn't originate from my thinking, but more the product of a conversation I was having with my boy.

Why is it when someone is mad at you, or you break up with a girlfriend or boyfriend the first thing they do is "delete" your profile on their Facebook or Myspace page, or remove you from their "Top friends list?" Ha..

Are you serious?! I've been a victim of this stupid shit. Someone, anyone, please explain this to me...Help!

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Friendshipland

Was talking to a girl friend yesterday and she was telling me about how perfect this guy is she knows. She kept raving about him, so my question to her was...

"why is he not your man?"

Her answer...

"oh he is just my friend. I don't see him like that."

It made me think damn he is in FRIENDSHIPLAND.

Friendshipland is that place between heaven and hell, its where you get all the responsibility of being a boyfriend without the fun stuff. You get to see her cry on your shoulder, listen to her talk about other guys that treat her like shit, you go to movies, you are the one that picks her up when she is down, but at the end of the day you are just her buddy. Fellas when you hear something like, "your such a good friend" or "your friendship means a lot to me." Know you have just turned right onto friendship ave with no rest stops in your future.

There is hope though fellas, women always seem to figure it out you just have to wait at least 20 years. You hear those stories about how people get married after years apart, that is because he was in friendshipland.

With that said, fellas you'll get the girl if you hang in there. She'll have some scars but hey if she is worth it you can shine her up like a diamond.

Just shit it think about, talk to me people.

Bobby Drake

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Falling In Love...Men vs Women

I was talking with my boy last night and he was telling me a story about one of his friends and this crazy chick he met on line. I don't really know the guy he was talking about, nor do I know the girl so I can't give you much background on either. That's unimportant, the important question is who falls in love faster, men or women? Now, I understand that's a huge question and a lot of factors go into "falling in love," but who jumps first?

Women that fall in love are considered to be too "emotional" or "clingy." Men that fall in love are labeled "soft" or a "punk" by their boys.

I love the idea of falling in love. Love is a fool, it makes you do things you never thought you'd do. So I'm not saying it's a bad thing just wanted to ask the question. Let me know what you think...

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Blame It On The Alcohol!

It's late and I'm on glass number three of red wine. I'm pretty much f#@ked up! Rappers have made liquor popular by shouting out names in their songs. What type of adult beverage gets you nice?

Let's make a list:

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What women/men really want...

"What women want" was a great movie starring Mel Gibson and Helen Hunt. Made me think, "what do men and women really want? I know what I'm looking for, so what are you looking for? Give me the top three qualities you're looking for in the opposite sex.

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Sex Registration Please

I was sitting at home last night thinking about some of my past relationships. Really the lack of relationships in my past. Normally this thinking process is something women deal with, but there are some men that do as well.

I need America's help! When did "sex" start signing someones name on the dotted line for a relationship? Just because someone has sex with someone that does not make that person your significant other. This has happened to me a few times and I really don't understand.

America please explain this to me. Let me hear your opinion...

Bobby Drake

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Tampa's Smokin Hot Azz!! (Click For Pics)

I spent the holiday weekend in Florida with my boy and spent an afternoon on the beach in Tampa via Orlando. The beach definitely had some talents out there, but I only caught a few. Who has the best azz in Tampa...A, B, C, or D?

A)Maroon Bottoms
B)Ice Grey
C)Baby Blue
D)Lady In Red

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Dirty Girls

So, what is a "Dirty Girl?" I'm vacationing in Orlando right with my boy and we hit the town last night with a couple of his friends. Now I'm not going to reveal his profession, but he does very well and because of his high profile position, the girls flock like birds. It was like being in a park and watching the birds scramble for bread crumbs. Ha!

This one girl in particular (with the worst picnic/checker board short set on) was falling all over my boy, eyes half shut, sweaty and dancing to the beat of the birds chirping in her head (in her defense she had a little butt). I joked with my boy, but every time this girl danced with him her hands were always around his pockets and wallet. Every time he went to the bar--she went to the bar. One of his friends gave her a great nickname by the end of the night..."fanny pack!" haha she was right on his hip all night. So close actually that she knocked a glass of champagne that was poured from a $500 bottle right out of his hand onto the dance floor in one of her drunk dancing rages.

Now, I'm not sure what happened when they walked out of the club and headed towards the valet parking lot and disappeared into his awaiting black truck (sexy!). You tell me what you think happened?

I guess my question is: Are guys wrong for taking advantage of these types of situations or was this a typical case of a sweet girl gone "dirty girl" once that Patron hit her lips?

Talk to me...

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Determined

I couldn't sleep so I decided to write what was on my mind. Not the best poem in the world and I’m definitely no poet, but it’s real, so here goes…

I’m Determined

I’m determined to be all that you need and all that you’d ever want

I’m determined to love you despite of the things you think I’ll be ashamed of concerning you

I’m determined to be there for you when the ones you thought would be aren’t

I’m determined to support your dreams because they’ll become my dreams

I’m determined to be that strong women to support you when you’re down to help pick you back up

I’m determined to give you your space but be there when and if you’re ready to talk

I’m determined to be the best me I can be so you’ll be proud to call me yours

I'm determined to be the best you've ever had

I’m determined; I’m so determined, are you?

Just a random thought.

Your girl,

Sally Goodwright

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