Monday, July 13, 2009

Falling In Love...Men vs Women

I was talking with my boy last night and he was telling me a story about one of his friends and this crazy chick he met on line. I don't really know the guy he was talking about, nor do I know the girl so I can't give you much background on either. That's unimportant, the important question is who falls in love faster, men or women? Now, I understand that's a huge question and a lot of factors go into "falling in love," but who jumps first?

Women that fall in love are considered to be too "emotional" or "clingy." Men that fall in love are labeled "soft" or a "punk" by their boys.

I love the idea of falling in love. Love is a fool, it makes you do things you never thought you'd do. So I'm not saying it's a bad thing just wanted to ask the question. Let me know what you think...

5 comments:

shell on July 13, 2009 at 12:47 PM said...

i would say, generally speaking, women fall first or at least share that they've fallen first....and i think that's because women communicate their feelings more openly than men (naturally...it's just the way we're made). :)

i, personally, like to take things slow and want to know in my heart and soul that whay i'm feeling is true, especially before i share verbally. i truly enjoy the part of really getting to know someone on all levels in a relationship....and i think that falling in love is something that MUST take time. like Diana Ross said, "you can't hurry love"! haha

my biggest fear about falling in love and being the first to share that i've fallen is that it isn't/won't be reciprocated.....not a good feeling!

Anonymous said...

Love is for the birds!! Smash as much ass you can before you die!!

Uncle Charlie said...

WOW...Anonymous tell us how you really feel. Looks like someone's little heart has been broken. Suck that shit up and keep it movin...lol.

I'm only joking. "Smashing" as you so eloquently put it is ok for a while but that gets old. Falling in love is natural and when it happens there will be nothing you can do about it player!!

Mike on July 13, 2009 at 5:07 PM said...

Cornelius.....
I think in general woman fall in love faster but... their are a lot of men that...

Are we talking about love love or puppy love?

Because a lot of guys are super clingy and scare the woman off earlier on. Puppy Love.

In a more serious relationship the woman would fall first. But the man could be better at holding back his clingy or mushiness.

Any questionS?

Uncle Charlie said...

Yeah i have a question Mike. What the hell are you talking about? lmao!!

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