I was sitting at home last night thinking about some of my past relationships. Really the lack of relationships in my past. Normally this thinking process is something women deal with, but there are some men that do as well.
I need America's help! When did "sex" start signing someones name on the dotted line for a relationship? Just because someone has sex with someone that does not make that person your significant other. This has happened to me a few times and I really don't understand.
America please explain this to me. Let me hear your opinion...
Bobby Drake
Thursday, July 9, 2009
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3 comments:
What is up with you BD? Every time you post something you're causing trouble...ha. I think I know who this is???
On too my comment. I think if there is open lines of communication on both sides, then have fun and do what you do. If you're calling her/ texting her at 2 am wanting a late night snack...then there's a problem. The women I know reserve that for our men! Not some late night creep.
As long as you both know what the deal is, all is good :-)
I'm a guy and this is how I see it. I like...correction LOVE sex as much as the next guy, but sex always means something. It may not mean I'm your man or you're my girl, but it means something.
Do your thang Bobby Drake
Listen I'm somewhere in the middle of you both Anonymous and HOF23. But this is the deal. Some women, let me say that again--"some women" play the game just like guys. The ones that don't are the ones that talk that crazy shit. That small third group of women are the ones that want a relationship but are willing to sacrifice societies ideas of the norm and go with what works for them and their partner. Maybe the relationship works better when you can enjoy (just each other) each other with no written agreement.
Sex does mean something, but as long as you and your partner know what it means then you're good.
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