This poem is about how society views the perfect girl. It's a little deep but really not meant to be. Listen for how each sentence is start..."The perfect girl..." then at the end the message changes..."Your perfect girl...." We all have choices to make don't let anyone or anything influence that. Love who you love (That's deep, ha)!
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Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Ego (Click for video)
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Ego is what you make of it. Some of us have one and many of us don't. I'm just having fun with my site and camera. Hope you enjoy!
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Sunday, June 28, 2009
The Night Club Conspiracy
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Why do ladies go to the club looking as good as they do, if it's not to pick up a guy? I was out with my boy last night at a club called The Park on 14th and we came across some really good looking girls. Now, it's not in our nature to approach women regularly but we're guys. Our goal of course is to meet women. Women what the hell are your attention?
You spend hours getting ready then when you do get approached you have attitude (what's that all about?). Are you looking good for other women? Oh, I see it's a competition, like guys and sports/video games you have to out do each other, but unfortunately you leave the men behind as causalities of war! Ha
So, my question is, why do you spend so much time looking good, hair all "did" and smelling good if it's not to meet a nice guy? And don't give me the bullshit that you can't find a good guy in the club because I'm there at least once month (that sound is me blowing my own horn!! ha).
Talk to me America...
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You spend hours getting ready then when you do get approached you have attitude (what's that all about?). Are you looking good for other women? Oh, I see it's a competition, like guys and sports/video games you have to out do each other, but unfortunately you leave the men behind as causalities of war! Ha
So, my question is, why do you spend so much time looking good, hair all "did" and smelling good if it's not to meet a nice guy? And don't give me the bullshit that you can't find a good guy in the club because I'm there at least once month (that sound is me blowing my own horn!! ha).
Talk to me America...
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Mature Experience
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What is every man's dream? I believe it’s a “Mature Experience,” a night of romance with an older woman at least 40. Why is this man's dream? Let me break it down for you:
First, all men deep down are mama's boy. We love the sanctuary of a mother’s warmth, that lovely feeling of being safe and secure.
Second, mature women know what they want and don't take any nonsense. When you approach an older woman you have to have your shit together. Bringing your “A” game is a must, so speaking in street slang with your jeans half off your ass is not going to get it done.
Third, mature women are selfless. When they are into you they do whatever for you. They are there for you when you need advice, a little money, sexually and unlike younger woman they can cook their ass off. Nothing is better than a nice home cooked meal after a long day.
Finally, the SEX IS BETTER!!! Sorry to all my 20 something ladies, but it’s a fact, you don't mature sexually until your mid 20's early 30's. I know all women think they hold gold between their thighs, but just imagine what it is like when it has marinated for a few more years (HAHA-inserted from the editor Uncle Charlie). Plus, older women are freaks they really know how to shake the sheets. They really know what gets them off so there is no beating around the bush they set the mood and get down to business.
Fellas, if you haven't had a mature experience find one but like I said come correct this not a Mickey D's date, so bring you’re “A” game. Ladies (20’s and 30’s) go talk to a mature woman, everyone has a freaky aunt in their family, hell it may be your mom! Ask some questions so you can get your game tight. Don’t think you are all you can be now, take the advice from your favorite song and UPGRADE…yourself
Bobby Drake
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First, all men deep down are mama's boy. We love the sanctuary of a mother’s warmth, that lovely feeling of being safe and secure.
Second, mature women know what they want and don't take any nonsense. When you approach an older woman you have to have your shit together. Bringing your “A” game is a must, so speaking in street slang with your jeans half off your ass is not going to get it done.
Third, mature women are selfless. When they are into you they do whatever for you. They are there for you when you need advice, a little money, sexually and unlike younger woman they can cook their ass off. Nothing is better than a nice home cooked meal after a long day.
Finally, the SEX IS BETTER!!! Sorry to all my 20 something ladies, but it’s a fact, you don't mature sexually until your mid 20's early 30's. I know all women think they hold gold between their thighs, but just imagine what it is like when it has marinated for a few more years (HAHA-inserted from the editor Uncle Charlie). Plus, older women are freaks they really know how to shake the sheets. They really know what gets them off so there is no beating around the bush they set the mood and get down to business.
Fellas, if you haven't had a mature experience find one but like I said come correct this not a Mickey D's date, so bring you’re “A” game. Ladies (20’s and 30’s) go talk to a mature woman, everyone has a freaky aunt in their family, hell it may be your mom! Ask some questions so you can get your game tight. Don’t think you are all you can be now, take the advice from your favorite song and UPGRADE…yourself
Bobby Drake
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Speechless...
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I was listening to my girl Beyonce while cleaning the other day and “Speechless” came on. I had to turn off the vacuum, sit down and listen. I forgot how much I loved that song. If you’ve never heard it but it talks about making love/or having sex so sweet, it leaves you…speechless! Got me to thinking about speechless moments in my life. One I’ll never forget was in Chicago a few years back.
It had to have been at least 15 below zero outside and I and some colleagues are out on the town. We meet up with some friends at the club and proceed to have a good time. I see this guy “Ray”, whom I’ve seen every night of my trip. I’m feeling him and I know he’s feeling me. We cut up the dance floor, dancing real close grooving to the beat, yes, I said grooving. The rhythm is there so it got me to thinking,
“If he moves this good on the floor….” So we close the club down and head back to our hotel. We’re feeling each other so I invite him to my room, why not, I’ll probably never see him again so what the hell. I take a shower to wash off the sweat from the club and he does the same. We lotion each other down real good and he says,” I wanna give you something.” I say, “What?” Before I can even finish the word I’m flat on my back receiving the most incredible head I’ve EVER had! There was no stopping this man. He was like a dog with a ham bone! I lost count of the number of time I came. All I can remember is saying,” If you make me c** one more time, you’re out of luck because I’m about to be so sleep!” He laughed at me but we made it do what it do. I had NO words after…well…until he woke me up an hour later to do it all over again! We still laugh about that night. He turned out to be a really great friend.
Speechless....what’s your most speechless moment?
Your girl,
Sally Goodwright
Monday, June 22, 2009
Baseball (Click to see video)
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Taking some of you way back to more innocent times when relationships were easy...middle school. This poem is about getting to first base or second base...with an adult twist! Enjoy.
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Friday, June 19, 2009
Hollywood Crushes...
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I was thinking as I drove into work this morning. Who is my "Hollywood crush?" Now, when I say Hollywood, what I'm really saying is celebrity. Doesn't have to be a movie star, or singer. Your crush may be a reality star, maybe a producer, or even a super model. If you had one night, one chance, one date with the person(s) of your dreams, who would it be and what would you do?
Who is your Hollywood/Celebrity crush?
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Who is your Hollywood/Celebrity crush?
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Can you take me there?
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Sex is great! I love it! I was what some would consider a “late bloomer” but once I started, it was no stopping me. I can admit I’ve had a few pretty good partners but none of them have ever taken me to a place where I’d say, “Let’s try this or let’s try that,” until I met “Jon”.
“Jon” made me wanna skip work, call in sick and spend all day in bed with him. I came to the point where I wanted to ask him to do some things I’d never done with anyone else but didn’t really know how to say,”Can you take me there?” We did some things…okay, a lot of things, that tested my stamina and his but we both were able to keep up. I’m comfortable in my sexuality and I don’t think he would have thought less of me for asking but when is the best time to ask someone, “Can you take me there?” or do you just make the move yourself and “take them there?” What do you think?
Your girl,
Sally Goodwright
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“Jon” made me wanna skip work, call in sick and spend all day in bed with him. I came to the point where I wanted to ask him to do some things I’d never done with anyone else but didn’t really know how to say,”Can you take me there?” We did some things…okay, a lot of things, that tested my stamina and his but we both were able to keep up. I’m comfortable in my sexuality and I don’t think he would have thought less of me for asking but when is the best time to ask someone, “Can you take me there?” or do you just make the move yourself and “take them there?” What do you think?
Your girl,
Sally Goodwright
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Give it a number?
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How in important are looks in a relationship? Do you look for inner or outer beauty in your significant other? Give it a number (%)...
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Monday, June 15, 2009
Superstars
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So I’m driving and decided to take a look in my CD case, because I’m tired of listening to the radio, and what pops out...Usher’s Confessions CD. Man! That took me back!!! I proceed to listen and get to what use to be one my favorite songs, “Superstar.” It made me think, how many “Superstars” have I had in my life? And to be honest I could only think of one person.
It’s funny when I think about it because he came into my life during a time I wasn’t even focused on any type of relationship but things always happen when you least expect them. I found myself doing things I thought I’d never do but it felt so natural to do so. This man had me hooked from the first time he looked into my eyes. I tried to fight it but it didn’t last long. I thought I had it all together but boy did he knock my walls down…in more ways than one! I still view him as my “Superstar” and who knows maybe one day I’ll be his. But until then, “I’ll be your groupie baby, cause you are my superstar….”
How many “Superstars” have you had in your life?
Your girl,
Sally Goodwright
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It’s funny when I think about it because he came into my life during a time I wasn’t even focused on any type of relationship but things always happen when you least expect them. I found myself doing things I thought I’d never do but it felt so natural to do so. This man had me hooked from the first time he looked into my eyes. I tried to fight it but it didn’t last long. I thought I had it all together but boy did he knock my walls down…in more ways than one! I still view him as my “Superstar” and who knows maybe one day I’ll be his. But until then, “I’ll be your groupie baby, cause you are my superstar….”
How many “Superstars” have you had in your life?
Your girl,
Sally Goodwright
Friday, June 12, 2009
Turn Off's...
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I was listening to the radio this morning and they were talking about first dates and what were the deal breakers on a first date. So, to take it a step further, what are the top three things about the opposite sex that turn you off? Before, during or after a first date.
1. Late (Be on time people)
2. Not saying, "Thank you." (The most important!)
3. Acting like you have to go to the bathroom when the check comes and you've been drinking Bud Light like a freakin' fish! ha
Your turn....
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1. Late (Be on time people)
2. Not saying, "Thank you." (The most important!)
3. Acting like you have to go to the bathroom when the check comes and you've been drinking Bud Light like a freakin' fish! ha
Your turn....
The BEST You Ever Had.
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The hottest song on the radio right now is Drake's "The Best I Ever Had." It got me to thinking, who was the best I ever had and what made her the best?
My best without a doubt, hands down is "Hailey"(real name is withheld). The reason I think she was the best is simple, we just connected on all levels. Everything seemed perfect from the very first time to the last time. There was no boundaries between us, nothing was off limits, we both gave each other equal pleasure. We made each other climax physically but most importantly mentally.
She made love to my mind as well as my body. The feeling of your mind erupting with excitement, the physical connection, and reaching the highest points of pleasure at same time--WOW! There are NO words to explain that utopia. It was like a beautiful love song written by Marvin Gaye.
So, I want the public to find their "Hailey" and if you have hold on to it but if you are in the same boat as me and have lost yours do this. Never try to recreate what once was. You never can bring that magic back. Just keep the memory and start fresh who knows you may find something better.
See you soon....Bobby Drake
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My best without a doubt, hands down is "Hailey"(real name is withheld). The reason I think she was the best is simple, we just connected on all levels. Everything seemed perfect from the very first time to the last time. There was no boundaries between us, nothing was off limits, we both gave each other equal pleasure. We made each other climax physically but most importantly mentally.
She made love to my mind as well as my body. The feeling of your mind erupting with excitement, the physical connection, and reaching the highest points of pleasure at same time--WOW! There are NO words to explain that utopia. It was like a beautiful love song written by Marvin Gaye.
So, I want the public to find their "Hailey" and if you have hold on to it but if you are in the same boat as me and have lost yours do this. Never try to recreate what once was. You never can bring that magic back. Just keep the memory and start fresh who knows you may find something better.
See you soon....Bobby Drake
Monday, June 8, 2009
Poem #5 Part 2 of 2 (Click to see video)
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Part 2 is how a guy would see the same night. Please remember it's all in fun and good spirits! Enjoy.
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Poem #5 Part 1 of 2 (Click to see video)
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Poem #5 tells the story of how and man and a woman could see the same night out on the town, the same, but different. Enjoy!
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Thursday, June 4, 2009
"What if..."
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Been thinking about this today...
I have come to realize that women live by the "WHAT IF" motto...What I mean by this is that women will ride or die with a guy even though she knows deep down in her heart of hearts that he is not going to come around and be the man that she wants him to be. Women, the problem with the "what if" motto, is that you are wishing and reaching for something that is not there a lot of the times. I know what goes through your mind - "if I do this he will come around," or "if I change this then I know this will get him to love me." And my personal favorite, "if I stay around him long enough he will see that I am the one for him." WRONG!!!! Sorry boo boo it doesn't work like that.
Unlike you ladies, men know what they want and will go after it. If you are not it we will either tell you or our actions will show it. Ladies I think you see what you want to see. Here's an example: Let's say I tell you that we are just friends and that I really enjoy your company and want to go out and kick it. Maybe grab dinner, drinks and movies. In a man's mind that is what it is a night out with my homie, but for a woman she thinks if we do this a few more times, he will come around and feel what i feel, I will play it cool.
Ladies, would you really want to be with someone that you are forcing to be with you, wouldn't you want someone that wants you and pursues you. I know I wouldn't want a woman that I had to con into loving me. I would be doing myself a disservice. The "WHAT IF" thinking just leads you to getting your feelings hurt, you having sleepless nights, and self esteem issues where you start seconding guessing yourself.
Ladies take control of your situation, stop dreaming see the reality of it and make conscience decisions and move on, find that man that wants you, the way you want you need and desire to be wanted.
Written by, Bobby Drake
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I have come to realize that women live by the "WHAT IF" motto...What I mean by this is that women will ride or die with a guy even though she knows deep down in her heart of hearts that he is not going to come around and be the man that she wants him to be. Women, the problem with the "what if" motto, is that you are wishing and reaching for something that is not there a lot of the times. I know what goes through your mind - "if I do this he will come around," or "if I change this then I know this will get him to love me." And my personal favorite, "if I stay around him long enough he will see that I am the one for him." WRONG!!!! Sorry boo boo it doesn't work like that.
Unlike you ladies, men know what they want and will go after it. If you are not it we will either tell you or our actions will show it. Ladies I think you see what you want to see. Here's an example: Let's say I tell you that we are just friends and that I really enjoy your company and want to go out and kick it. Maybe grab dinner, drinks and movies. In a man's mind that is what it is a night out with my homie, but for a woman she thinks if we do this a few more times, he will come around and feel what i feel, I will play it cool.
Ladies, would you really want to be with someone that you are forcing to be with you, wouldn't you want someone that wants you and pursues you. I know I wouldn't want a woman that I had to con into loving me. I would be doing myself a disservice. The "WHAT IF" thinking just leads you to getting your feelings hurt, you having sleepless nights, and self esteem issues where you start seconding guessing yourself.
Ladies take control of your situation, stop dreaming see the reality of it and make conscience decisions and move on, find that man that wants you, the way you want you need and desire to be wanted.
Written by, Bobby Drake
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
YouTube SuperStar (click to see video)
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Having some fun with some of my favorite youtube celebrity that are going to move on and have huge careers I'm sure. Check them out I think you'll like them.
Poem #4 (click to see video)
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I was inspired last night over dinner conversation and youtube clips. My next poem will be entitled "YouTube SuperStar"
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Update...This is how it works.
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This new singles blog will focus on the hottest men and women from around the country via video blogs. We’re interested in what you have to say about life, love and relationships. If you think you have what it takes to be one of Zambey’s Smokin’ Hot singles, here’s how it work:
*Shoot us an e-mail (zambeylocal@gmail.com) and receive detailed instructions on how to submit your video blog. In the subject line make sure you put Zambey’s Smokin’ Hot!
*Zambey’s panel of love experts (Not even close to PhD’s) will select the best and hottest video bloggers to appear on our site.
*Selected singles will be notified via e-mail.
*Users of the site will then have access to comment, answer surveys and leave messages in response to video blogs. Users can also become “Followers” and create mini profiles which allow them to upload personal mug shots.
So you’ve made it this far, give it a shot. Set your camera up, have fun and be creative. Look forward to seeing you on Zambey’s Smokin’ Hot!
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*Shoot us an e-mail (zambeylocal@gmail.com) and receive detailed instructions on how to submit your video blog. In the subject line make sure you put Zambey’s Smokin’ Hot!
*Zambey’s panel of love experts (Not even close to PhD’s) will select the best and hottest video bloggers to appear on our site.
*Selected singles will be notified via e-mail.
*Users of the site will then have access to comment, answer surveys and leave messages in response to video blogs. Users can also become “Followers” and create mini profiles which allow them to upload personal mug shots.
So you’ve made it this far, give it a shot. Set your camera up, have fun and be creative. Look forward to seeing you on Zambey’s Smokin’ Hot!
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Titles and Feelings...
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I been thinking a lot about these two things: Titles and Feelings. Men we get harassed by women all the time about our in ability to express our feelings and the fear of titles in a relationship. Well, ladies I am here to let you in on a little secret...we are not afraid nor do we lack the ability to express ourselves.
Women want men to express themselves and be locked down with titles so they can feel comfortable and save face in front of their friends. Ladies a man will let you know what he is thinking and feeling when he feels the time is right, not a moment sooner and definitely just not because your feelings have changed-now you want a relationship. If your feelings change there is nothing wrong with that, you have every right to feel how you want, but don't get mad at us because you want to change the status quo and we don't.
All I am saying, women have to learn allow a man to be a man and to grow up, take charge of her situation. If she doesn't like the way stuff is going with a man be a woman and stand up and do something about it. Stop using that lame excuse of loving him, if he loves you he will act right and accordingly, if not move on. Stop trying to make a man be something he is not, it will save you so many sleepless nights.
Ghost writer, Bobby Drake
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Women want men to express themselves and be locked down with titles so they can feel comfortable and save face in front of their friends. Ladies a man will let you know what he is thinking and feeling when he feels the time is right, not a moment sooner and definitely just not because your feelings have changed-now you want a relationship. If your feelings change there is nothing wrong with that, you have every right to feel how you want, but don't get mad at us because you want to change the status quo and we don't.
All I am saying, women have to learn allow a man to be a man and to grow up, take charge of her situation. If she doesn't like the way stuff is going with a man be a woman and stand up and do something about it. Stop using that lame excuse of loving him, if he loves you he will act right and accordingly, if not move on. Stop trying to make a man be something he is not, it will save you so many sleepless nights.
Ghost writer, Bobby Drake
Monday, June 1, 2009
That Thang...called LOVE
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Let me ask you a question. How do you know when you've found that right person? The one that makes your life complete. The one that makes everything better when you're down on your luck. The one that makes the good times even better when he/she is around to share it with you. How do you know when you've fallen in love?
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