I been thinking a lot about these two things: Titles and Feelings. Men we get harassed by women all the time about our in ability to express our feelings and the fear of titles in a relationship. Well, ladies I am here to let you in on a little secret...we are not afraid nor do we lack the ability to express ourselves.
Women want men to express themselves and be locked down with titles so they can feel comfortable and save face in front of their friends. Ladies a man will let you know what he is thinking and feeling when he feels the time is right, not a moment sooner and definitely just not because your feelings have changed-now you want a relationship. If your feelings change there is nothing wrong with that, you have every right to feel how you want, but don't get mad at us because you want to change the status quo and we don't.
All I am saying, women have to learn allow a man to be a man and to grow up, take charge of her situation. If she doesn't like the way stuff is going with a man be a woman and stand up and do something about it. Stop using that lame excuse of loving him, if he loves you he will act right and accordingly, if not move on. Stop trying to make a man be something he is not, it will save you so many sleepless nights.
Ghost writer, Bobby Drake
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Blue Moon I feel you player. What the hell is wrong with women..lol. Let me know when you figure it out.
I gotta be honest. I'm staying out of this one haha!!
I'm a girl and I agree that girls need to chill out. When a girl pushes for a relationship status or title it usually is to make herself feel more confident and secure and so she can tell her friends she officially has a man. Women need to be more confident about who they are have more faith in their relationships, even if they don't have an official title.
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