I just got off the phone with my cousin and for those of you that don't know him, he's laugh out loud funny. He made a statement to me about marriage. Actually his actual comment was, "don't ever f*#king get married!" haha...he definitely didn't mean to sound so hostile. You just have to know his humor.
So I played along and asked the obvious question, "why?" His answer like everything else he says really makes no sense in the big picture-"Because the SEX, SUCKS!!" haha
So my question is does the flame go out once the rings are exchanged. With the "I do's" is your wife officially saying, "I don't?" If this is true I'm never, never, ever getting married.
Talk to me people...
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i think that if you are truly in love then the passion never dies and you will always have great sex! there will be nights for the hot sex and nights for "making love".
i don't understand what's wrong with women who don't satisfy their husband...that's part of a marriage and loving someone! when i get married, my husband will ALWAYS!!! be satisfied!!!
I agree with your cousin why is marriage such a big deal. For women its a right of passage that is when they feel complete and finally comfortable, where they can feel they don't have to worry about their man leaving them.
The sex sucks because women feel they don't have to do the stuff they use to do when you was dating, they think the ring is there get out freaky deeky card and think that lazy sex is going to be good enough.
Listen I agree with both of you. But I'm leaning towards TwoScoops, Anonymous, but I like the way you think. Maybe you should run for the President of the WWLMS...Women Who Love Marital Sex! haha
You have to keep it interesting! If the sex sucks then be cleaning the house naked when your husband comes home - or make a hot fudge sundae out of yourself on the bed. Be creative if the sex starts to fade. But I agree, if you're truly in love then the sex thing shouldn't really be an issue.
I agree with Anonymous. You have to keep the fire blazing. Come up with new and creative ways to make the "magic" happen. I disagree with TwoScoops. I'm a woman and I don't feel like marriage is a "right of passage". Marriage to me is something holy and ordained by God. A commitment made by two people to always love, protect and care for one another. Someone you can really be yourself with. Not saying you can't do that with a significant other but if you both feel like you want to make that commitment then go for it.
I personally WILL NOT lack in the sexing of my husband considering I have a high sex drive. I know some of my married women friends that have high sex drives and their husbands are the ones lacking in the bedroom. But they love them in spite of it. I'm all for the freaky deeky but he needs to be willing to play along even if it's not "exciting" for him because in the end he will greatly benefit from it.
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