Friday, September 4, 2009

Lesbian Love....I don't understand it

I am just a man that is trying to figure out life and certain things just blow my mind or make me think strongly about certain subject matters.

Today I was looking at facebook and saw an old friend, she is now a lesbian. That is not my issue, my issue is that her girlfriend looks like a strong ugly guy. Maybe I am not understanding, but I thought the reason for being a lesbian was to like women. I think women are elegant, soft, sexy, not the pants sagging, do-rag wearing chicks that try to be men. Maybe In am being a man but when I think of two women together I thinking about something like Halle Berry and Gabby Union not Halle Berry and Whoopi Goldberg.

It got me thinking--maybe these women just don't like penis, but when you think about it they use dildos and such to get to paradise so that is not it. Maybe I am thinking to literally but I think women should be with real women if they are going to be lesbian. If you are going to date a tough, butch looking chick why not just get a man?

These are just my thoughts on lesbian women if someone can please help me understand this please respond.

Bobby Drake

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

It gets even more complicated then what you mentioned above. When people get sex changes, transgender etc. CRAZY stuff.
When a guy then becomes a women, but likes men, was he gay to begin with....or is he straight because he's now a woman who likes men....I can't wrap my mind around it either.

Anonymous said...

It's all about gender roles. Unfortunately, society ingrains these stereotypes into our heads as soon as we're born. For example, baby girls get pink stuff, baby boys get blue, baby girls get baby dolls, and baby boys get trucks. So with that being said, usually in gay and lesbian relationships, there is a male and a female...so, you do the math.

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