Hello All! I feel like a virgin…well…a writing virgin, since this is my first submission to the blog scene so be gentle with me.
Any who, I was having a conversation with a good friend about sex drives. Studies have shown that men have a higher sex drive then women but unlike most women my age (late 20’s) I have an EXTREMELY high sex drive. It’s been said that women don’t hit their sexual peak until mid 30’s to 40. Well…. I’m WAY ahead of the game. Is this a bad thing????
I don’t think so, but is it be a problem if I want it more than him? Men often complain that when they get in a “committed” relationship, with a woman (not sure about homosexuals. I can only speak for the hetero’s), the sex is either placed on life support or may even flatline and just die. That may be so for some women but for me… I’m the total opposite. I find that I wanna “do it” way more often than he does.
Am I alone in this? Women…talk to me! Men… you can speak on this as well. Help a sista out! LOL!
LoyalT
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I don't think it's a problem at all. I think the best sex in a relationship is not forced by either partner. I think the important thing is you're matched with someone you're compatible with and attracted too.
Sex is a rhythm and can be more then just penetration...sexy text messages, pictures, notes, or massages.
My point is I don't think in a relationship "sex drive" should ever be an issue as long as you're committed to "keeping the love alive!"
loyalt...you are not alone! i definitely don't think it's a bad thing....you just have to find someone who appreciates that about you. as far as in a relationship and wanting it more than the man...that will become a problem at some point...like uncle charlie said, you have to find someone you're compatible with.
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